The new book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother has created a lot of controversy. I haven't read the book but I've read a few of the reviews against it. I came across a Christian perspective today and it resonated with me. Here's the link.
God has entrusted our kids to us and they are not our own. I have to let go of defining success as excelling at multiple extra-curricular activities including music, sports, and a second/third language; getting good grades at school and ultimately completing university; getting a good job; getting married and having children. I need to constantly remind myself that I just need to be a good role model and teach and encourage my kids to follow God's will for their lives. Success is when God says, "Well done, good and faithful servant."
I'm actually glad Amy Chua put out her memoir to get us thinking about our goals for parenting. I like the article -- thanks for the link!
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